Jan
26
Filed Under (Weblogs) by azalealara on 26-01-2006

sejuk betul kerja hari ni, dah sampai tgharipun macam pagi… macam nak reput frost. pegi U nak settle problem, nasib takyah bayar ape-ape..

Jan
21
Filed Under (Current Affairs) by azalealara on 21-01-2006

gi sunway lagoon kali kedua, ada fun day,dah tak teruja pun tapi ok gak dapat Grand prize untuk Lucky draw.

Jan
18
Filed Under (Weblogs) by azalealara on 18-01-2006

Below is an article that wrote for teenagers.
It also applies to adults …

Making Friends

Have you ever been scared of someone?
Do other people make you nervous?
Guess what! You make other people nervous!

Many people who look cool, calm and collected
aren’t nearly as confident as they look!

Here’s what often happens …

On Monday you see a new kid at school.
His name is Michael. You think to yourself,
"I would like to speak to Michael."
But Michael doesn’t say "Hello" to you –
so you don’t speak either.

You see him again on Tuesday.
You are really hoping that he will say "Hi!"
You tell yourself, "If Michael speaks to me first, then I’ll say ‘Hi’".
But he doesn’t speak – so you don’t.

By Wednesday you are thinking,
"Maybe Michael is a snob!
Perhaps he thinks he’s better than me!"
So when you pass each other in the corridor,
you both look the other way.

For the next six m! onths you never speak to each other.

Then one day, a friend introduces you to Michael.
And Michael turns out to be a really friendly guy!
And he tells you, "I wanted to talk to you but you seemed like a snob!"
He says, "I thought you didn’t want to be my friend!"
Isn’t life crazy!

You may not think that you look intimidating,
but other people fear you too.

Often, when other people seem unfriendly,
they are actually scared of you –
scared that they will be embarrassed or
scared that they will be rejected.

Three things to remember:

1. Everyone has those, "I’m not good enough!" thoughts.
When other people seem unfriendly, they often just lack confidence.

2. If you speak to someone nicely – and they are unfriendly,
it is not your problem. They have a prob! lem.
Be proud of yourself that you had the courage to say "Hello".

3. Other people often wait for you to speak first.
If you wait for them to speak, nothing happens!

Make it your habit to speak first, and for the rest of your life
you will make many more friends.

Best wishes,

Andrew Matthews

Jan
15
Filed Under (Weblogs) by azalealara on 15-01-2006

Something like Garfield got the dilemma, me? Of course we all have.

Jan
14
Filed Under (Music) by azalealara on 14-01-2006

Korban Cinta by Aris Ariwatan

Berangkat pergi biduk kukayuh

Sarat hati yang luka

Agar tak lebih menyakitkan

Jika masih di sini

Bukan cuba untuk melarikan

Dari kerumitan cinta

Tapi waktu ini perlu untukku mengupas segalanya

Kadangkala pedih kini mencabarku melupakan semua

Tapi perasaan kasih padamu melebihi diriku

Tapi engkau bagaikan tidak mengerti

Halangan cintanya kita berdua

Terpaksa aku pergi mencari kesilapan sebenarnya

Mengalah bukan kalah

Pergiku bukan lari

Bukan mudah bercinta

Jika pengertian tak setaraf

Menagih korban yang lebih dalam

Jan
13
Filed Under (Weblogs) by azalealara on 13-01-2006

Forgiveness

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Why should we forgive people?"

At some point most of us learned that it is a good idea to forgive people. We learned that it is "holy" or "spiritual".

But there is a more basic reason to forgive people: when you don’t forgive them, it ruins your life!

Let’s say:
a) you are my boss and you give me the sack, or
b) you are my girl, and you run off with my buddy.
So I say, "I’ll never forgive you for that!"

Who suffers? Not you!

I’m pacing the floor. I’ve got the knot in my stomach. I’m losing sleep. You are probably out partying!

Where do we get the idea that if WE don’t forgive people, THEY suffer? It’s nuts!

Recent studies at the Public Health Institute in California confirm that hostility and resentment tear down your immune system and double your risk of heart attack, cancer and even diabetes.

Bitterness makes you sick!

To forgive someone, you don’t have to agree with what they did. You just have to want your life to work.

In a nutshell

Is it easy? Usually not. But you don’t forgive people for their benefit.

You do it for your benefit.

Andrew Matthews

Jan
10
Filed Under (Current Affairs) by azalealara on 10-01-2006

Hari ini hari raya Haji @ korban. Balik kampung dari semalam, ada citer gempak sikit kat kampung. Kalau hari raya puasa Paktehnya Tasya kena gigit lipan, ini Tasya pula kena gigit dek ular(itu kata dia) doktor kata sejenis serangga. Tak jumpa pulak ularnya. Alhamdullilah semuanya ok.

Hari raya makan yang best, takde nasi himpit , lomang adolah. Lauk sedap macam-macam ikan sembilang+daun gelugor, daging salai masak cili api dan macam2 lagi. … bestnya. semua balik kecuali Gda.

Petang dah balik, singgah rumah Maklang ama ..makan2 belated besday Adik Azfa.

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